Sunday, 26 July 2015

A strange day!

Good morning everyone,
I hope you are having a great weekend!
This blog post is a bit different - no pictures of cards - more focus on the 'cat' part of my blog name today.
It was the Claritystampers East workshop at Bawburgh yesterday and for me it was a very strange one!  It all started on Friday evening when we realised that Merlin, our big black cat was in serious trouble - his breathing was all wrong and he was flopped out, his abdomen was a bit swollen and he was not very responsive, so we took him to the vet.  She said it was a problem with his heart and kept him in overnight...
So Saturday morning , still very worried about Merlin, we set off for the workshop, only to find that there was no-one there to open the hall - it took us a while to find someone to speak to, but eventually we got someone and a lady came to open up.  This was about 9:45, and normally I am in by 9:00.  Some of the ladies had arrived, so they set to and there were tables being set up, cups being got out (getting the water heater on was the first job, obviously!!) chairs being whisked around and all my sale items being set out.  No-one complained, I didn't ask, they just got straight on with helping me and as a result, we were pretty much set up on time.
While all this was going on, we had a call from the vet to say that Merlin hadn't responded to treatment and would we give permission for her to Xray his heart, so we agreed....
Finally, the workshop was under way, much the same as always.
I got a call from Simon at lunchtime which confirmed my worst fears, that Merlin wasn't going to pull through, he had probably got blood clots in his legs and that could be causing him pain, so we decided to have him put to sleep (he was pretty much unconscious anyway)  Simon went over to be with him while the deed was done and to bring him home afterwards.
I went back to the workshop...and it carried on as normal.
At the end, the lovely ladies helped wash up and pack up and put the tables away and just left me my own stuff to sort out while I waited for Simon to come and pick me up.  He arrived at 16:00 and we packed the car, but no sign of anyone from the hall, so we had to call and wait for someone to come and lock up.  Apparently they hadn't been able to contact the lovely man who should have been opening and closing the hall (let's hope he wasn't having a strange day too!!)
So we got home, I said goodbye to Merlin and we buried him under a bush in the back garden.
I was a bit numb to it all yesterday, but I feel very sad today.

Merlin turned up in the back garden about 5 years ago, thin, hungry, very nervous and with a big tick on his head.  I fed him, got rid of his tick and made friends.  He moved in, put on weight and became the most gentle, lovely cat who loved a cuddle and a fuss, so although I am very sad to see him go, I also know he had a happy and contented life with me.

Thank you if you have got through this long post, I am not the sort to dwell on this sort of thing, so it should all be back to normal soon.

I will post cards  from the workshop after the Great Blakenham one next Sunday.

Finally, I would like to say a huge Thank You to the ladies at Bawburgh for your help and support, you guys really are the best!

Janet xxx


  1. What a very sad day Janet but, it sounds as though Merlin was well looked after until the end. Lots of love Chrissie x

  2. I feel your pain Janet but what a cracking bunch of Clarity east girlies you have.

    We have a black cat in our garden who is there rain or shine, even on Christmas day. My boys do not like him at all. We put a note on his collar and within half an hour the owner called to say where he lived. They are out at work all day. So it just goes to show, cats go where they are wanted (by humans rather than cats in our case!) and Merlin certainly had a happy lovely home.

    It will feel strange for some time, but at least your home is not empty, with other cat love around.

    Sending you hugs and look forward to seeing you next Sunday xxx

  3. Awwww bless, I shed a few tears for Merlin reading your post, so sorry, RIP handsome chap xx

  4. Oh Janet, I cried for you last night, and I'm crying again now. A lovely tribute to Merlin, poor little boy. As you said take comfort in knowing that he had a lovely life with you , and was a lucky little cat to wander into your house.

  5. Oh Janet, I cried for you last night, and I'm crying again now. A lovely tribute to Merlin, poor little boy. As you said take comfort in knowing that he had a lovely life with you , and was a lucky little cat to wander into your house.

  6. What a handsome cat Janet. I know you will miss him but he had a very happy life while he lived with you. Thinking of you. x

  7. Sending you much love and hugs Janet, ..Merlin was indeed a very handsome and lucky cat to have found such a lovely lady to look after will always have your treasured memories....xxxx

  8. So sorry for your loss Janet. It sounds like you were both very lucky to have found each other. x

  9. Merlin was a very lucky cat to have spent the last five years of his life being loved by you. He is identical to our little black cat Charlie who is nearly 15. Big hugs to you and see you on Sunday. xx

  10. So sorry. I am a very 'sentimental old hector' about animals so I cried too.
    Hope you are feeling better today.


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